I did it! I officially changed my name legally to Bella. I still can't believe it and it's such an incredible feeling. Yesterday I went to the DMV and submitted all my paperwork to have them change it. I won't lie, but when I started the process in December, it became real to me and I started crying. It was a bittersweet feeling. On one hand, I was saying goodbye to my old identity, while in the other, I'm saying he[...]
This year changed everything. I know I'm not alone when I say 2020 was ROUGH for many reasons. It was also GREAT in many ways. Feeling so much positivity and gratitude that I want to reflect on the good that came out of this crazy and unforgettable year. My heart is so happy that this year I was let go from a job that I wasn't excited about. The commute, the job itself was taxing, I outgrew the people there. I fe[...]
Today makes a year since I started my last job and something else. It would've been my one year anniversary. I'm so happy I'm no longer working there. My life has changed drastically when I look back at the past 12 months. Even typing this title, makes me emotional. Meeting My Twin Soul I remember that day like it was yesterday. That was also the day I first laid eyes on him, my twin. My immediate thought[...]
The silver lining through this crisis we're going through is really taking stock of the things that matter. Our relationships with our family, friends, and with ourselves, is more important than material things. These relationships is what is keeping a lot of us sane right now. If you're going insane, then it's time to make some decisions. On my last post, I talked about loving yourself. I also said that it's a p[...]
These times we're going through are really rough, no one is immune to these changes our world is facing. Some of us are able to work from home, have kids who are not able to go back to school, having to cancel flights, events, moving, you name it. Our whole world has been flipped upside down. There are silver linings though, you just have to shift your perspective so that you can see it. We are going through[...]
Hey you. I know I've been hiding out for a bit, but your girl went through a lot at the end of 2019. Now with the New Year being here, I finally felt strong enough to come back and share what's going on and where I want this new year and new decade to take me. I met someone who rocked my world. This person took me by surprise because I never knew I could feel so strongly for someone and even though I didn't k[...]