There’s only a few weeks left of 2021 and I realized I’m gonna have to move in February. So it seems like change has been happening consistently in my life. Before the year is up, I want to talk about the best thing I did for myself in 2021.
Being Patient
I think in our fast paced society, we want things fast. We want fast food, fast service, you know, instant gratification. But sometimes the beauty is in the waiting. In those waiting moments where you wait for things to fall into place. So when it’s time, all the pieces come together like magic and it feels like its own sweet reward.
I had to be patient while finding a job during this pandemic. It took me 6 months to find where I’m at now. I had to renew my lease at my apartment even though everything in me wanted to pick up and move, but I couldn’t manage it. I had to wait months after starting my job for them to hire me on permanently and they did! I had to be patient with my YouTube channel to grow to 1,000 subscribers, until I finally reached that goal.
I had to put writing my book on hold because I had too many things to take care of and now I feel I’m in a place where I can work on it again and finish it. I’ve been wanting to change my name legally to Bella and now I finally had the opportunity to change it. I’ve been going by Bella for 10 years now and it was about time to finally make the change.
I’ve been wanting to move to Florida, but the past few years I’ve had no chance of it happening. However, recently my mom is now contemplating on getting a house out there so it could be a possibility in the future. As of now though, I’m staying right where I’m at in ATX.
That’s honestly the best thing I did for myself this year is to allow things to come when it’s time. Because that’s how you know when something is meant for you, it will happen in divine timing.
What about y’all? Comment below what’s the best thing you did for yourself in 2021?
